Envy

sesungguhnya realiti itu tidak indah;
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it's hard watching people the same age as you get married. it's even harder when they enjoy rubbing it in your face. What's even worst is when you feel like coming up to them with advice, you'll get in-your-face responses.

"Oh really, well then just get married like we did! we're so happy"
"We were like that, but you know, we just went for it and got married,"
"Who cares if you're too young, we were 21 when we got married,"

Oh wow! What great advice! I should have known all along that the answer was to just bloody get married <insert sarcastic tone>

I envy the idea that you're all lucky enough to have gotten married at such a young age with no problems.

unlike you, there are us mortals here, who even though have found the right person, are not financially ready to get married, or have parents that don't even allow marriage at such a young age,or aren't even in the right mind to take on such big responsibilities as a husband or wife yet.  


so do you really think that we should just forget about all that and just take your advice and get bloody married anyway? 

oh,oh let's elope! let's runaway! and never come back.

what i'm saying, is just please stop. the pressure is too much already. i'm glad that everything went well for you guys, but please consider us lost souls.